Some things you do NOT have to pray and ask God should I do this when you have the means or ability to do it. For instance, if your neighbor is a single parent, working and or going to school, struggling to make ends meet for her children. You don’t have to pray and ask God should you buy her some groceries, or her children some new shoes. Should you babysit for her for free so she can use that money to take care of other things. If you have the extra money or spare time then just do it.